The #1 Question You Should Be Asking Yourself
November 16th, 2009
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not quite clear on the concept by WWWorks on Flickr
It’s easy to find ourselves stuck in the grind of everyday. We get into the same weekly routine and take little time to think about what we are actually doing (how many times have you thought to yourself: “Wow, where did the day/week/month go?”)
Are you growing? Are you pushing yourself forward? There is a question that I ask myself at the end of every week. It is simple:
What did I learn last week?
The secret to moving forward, in life, in school, in a job, anywhere, is that you have to be constantly learning and growing, and be aware of that learning and growth. Some things to think about when you ask yourself this question:
1. Internalize information.
Internalizing is essential in this time of information overload. We are constantly wired in. We are surrounded by news, by information, breaking stories and investigative reports. You scroll through hundreds of stories on Google Reader, but how much are you actually internalizing. What are you learning? Write something down and talk about it.
Introspection by e3000 on Flickr
2. Find learning in unexpected places.
I think of every experience as an opportunity to learn about myself. Even the crappy ones. Sometimes we learn the most when things go wrong. Instead of complaining about it (and wasting energy), ask yourself, “What have I learned about myself from this experience?” and move on.
3. Don’t over-think.
Studying abroad in Spain, I stress every week over whether I’ve spent my time wisely or whether I’m learning enough. But that doesn’t mean you should! Special experiences like college or study abroad aren’t about absorbing every little detail; they are about constantly growing as a person. Be aware of your growth, don’t stalk it.
November 16, 2009 | Filed Under Post, Uncategorized | 1 Comment
So now you know why you need to manage your online reputation. As an artist or as a job-seeking individual, future clients and employers are looking and you need to take control of what they see. Let’s look at a few easy things that you can do today to clean up your Facebook profile and avoid missing out on opportunities because of embarrassing content.
chug chug chug (lochnessjess on Flickr)
1. Untag any pictures you wouldn’t want your boss seeing.
Be ruthless with this. I don’t want to see any pictures of your first keg stand or the outrageously inappropriate costume you wore for Halloween.
2. Don’t let embarrassing pictures be taken of you in the first place.
If you are thinking to yourself, “I’m going to have to untag this” then maybe you shouldn’t take it in the first place. Also, there should be absolutely no pictures of underage drinking or illegal drug consumption in your profile.
3. Make an exclusive friends list for your pictures.
Most people create a “Limited Profile” list of friends, where they choose who they don’t want to see their pictures and other content. Instead of this, try creating a “Pictures Viewable” list of friends, where you choose who you do want to see your pictures. This reduces the number of random people viewing your content, because you have to consciously choose who gets to see it.
- Go to your Friends page and “Create New List” titled “Pictures Viewable”.
- Now click “All Connections” and select the friends you want to see your pictures by clicking “Add to List” and selecting “Pictures Viewable”.
- Go into your Profile Privacy Settings. Select “Custom” on the drop-down menu next to Photos Tagged of You.
- Select the bullet “Some Friends” and type in “Pictures Viewable” or whatever you named the group.
- Uncheck any networks you had selected previously.
Now, in order for people to see your pictures, they must be manually added to this exclusive group.
4. Change your privacy settings.
Facebook, by default, allows almost everyone to see your profile. This is probably, not what you want. Explore the Privacy Settings menu and customize to your liking. In my opinion, the safer the better. Here are my suggestions:
- Limit your profile visibility to “Only Friends” or something more exclusive.
- Have your Search visibility set to Everyone, but only allow people who find you in search to see a Profile Picture, link to add you as a friend, and a link to message you.
- Create a public listing for search engines. You still want people to be able to find you, just not able to stalk you.
5. Don’t forget your profile pictures.
Even once you have created an exclusive friends list for your pictures and untagged any embarrassing photos, you still have to go in and manually delete any profile pictures that you might not want visible. Click directly on your profile pictures to browse through your Profile Pictures Album. Hit Delete Photo for any pictures that don’t meet the same criteria you used to clear up your other photos.
The 9 most frequently searched terms on Google about “facebook privacy” are about breaking into private facebook profiles. The most important thing you can do to protect yourself is to remove any and all incriminating content. Manage your online presence, take out your digital trash, and enjoy a spotless, searchable reputation.
August 7, 2009 | Filed Under Post, Uncategorized | 1 Comment